We’re At The Age
We’re at the age where we’re working hard. We’re at the age where our kids want a little extra love. We’re at the age where our parents and elders need a hand. We’re at the age where we have to get to one more meeting We’re at the age where we’re in the middle of it all. And we need a community. So VOYCE, along with co-hosts Melody Fox and Marjorie Moore, is at the age where we’re starting a podcast to talk to the sandwich generation about the struggle, share some tips, and dig into all the things that we’re at the age to do.
Episodes

Thursday Apr 17, 2025
We're At The Age to Make Peace with Death
Thursday Apr 17, 2025
Thursday Apr 17, 2025
In this episode of the We're At The Age podcast, hosts Melody and Marjorie engage in a candid conversation about death and the role of death doulas. They discuss the common fears surrounding death, the misconceptions about death doulas, and the importance of planning for end-of-life care. Dr. Maurya D. Cockrell, a death doula, shares her insights on how to navigate grief, create meaningful legacies, and the various rituals that can help in the grieving process. The conversation emphasizes the need for open discussions about death and encourages listeners to document their wishes and memories.

Thursday Apr 03, 2025
We're At The Age We Can't Do It All Anymore
Thursday Apr 03, 2025
Thursday Apr 03, 2025
This conversation explores the various aspects of home care and home health care, highlighting the differences between the two, the types of services available, and the importance of finding trustworthy care providers. The discussion also touches on financial considerations and shares heartwarming stories from the field, emphasizing the emotional connections formed in caregiving.

Thursday Mar 20, 2025
We're At The Age We're Getting Around To Making A Will
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
In this conversation, Brian Quinn discusses the intricacies of estate planning, focusing on the importance of wills and trusts, strategies to avoid probate, and the necessity of updating estate plans regularly. He emphasizes the role of family dynamics in estate planning decisions and the impact of state-specific laws on the process. The discussion also touches on the costs associated with creating wills and trusts, providing listeners with a comprehensive understanding of the estate planning landscape. He emphasizes the significance of having open conversations with aging parents about their estate plans. The discussion highlights the potential financial and emotional burdens of not having a proper estate plan in place.

Thursday Mar 06, 2025
We're At The Age to Have Hard Conversations
Thursday Mar 06, 2025
Thursday Mar 06, 2025
In this episode, Melanie Maynor joins our hosts to discuss the challenges of navigating conversations with aging loved ones, the role of geriatric care managers, and the importance of intentional planning for aging. They explore how to prepare for difficult discussions, manage resistance to change, and recognize signs that may indicate a need for transitioning care. The conversation also highlights the value of care management for individuals with disabilities and offers insights on finding the right care manager. Success stories illustrate the impact of care management, and the episode concludes with a reflection on the essence of aging gracefully.

Thursday Feb 20, 2025
We're At The Age Mom Needs An Advocate
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
In this episode, Melody, Marjorie, and Chien Hung discuss the critical role of ombudsmen in advocating for residents in long-term care facilities. They explore the definition of an ombudsman, the challenges faced in the field, and the growing need for advocacy as the aging population increases. Chien shares his personal journey into gerontology and highlights the importance of awareness and funding for ombudsman programs.

Thursday Feb 06, 2025
We're At The Age To Have A Death Party
Thursday Feb 06, 2025
Thursday Feb 06, 2025
In this conversation, Melody introduces the concept of a 'death party' as a way to facilitate discussions about end-of-life wishes among family members and emergency contacts. Melody and Marjorie talk about the importance of planning for these wishes, navigating legal documents, and the emotional aspects of these discussions. Melody emphasizes the need for open communication and the benefits of having these conversations in a light-hearted manner, ultimately leading to a sense of peace and understanding within families.
End of Life Planning Workbook (not sponsored):
https://www.amazon.com/Im-Dead-Now-What-Organizer/dp/1441317996/ref=sr_1_6?crid=TWII2YU9FWLT&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X1htgXznnEnsX86Wa578WXFRRImSdbLekKTeNn3KA05PGELtksgWYp4Of_a_HPSvdq-Cz4iWF67MP3xg_Gr60GhhUW6eQSh9KudfGHH9wGdyrongKz5XACfMucRzmo22b1XCpP1zE9-zbIf7OhuM-4pBLFigGGWpLFeNs8HoNP5vGz5e5E8NRTa-kL92h9D7p9_L7qJ7iWel1nCbJFvxTfQHUAoV_X7h6whytD8j82d4zxkiWRJ7TBfLmjRTBmuQvwCX1ZJbeiMj_Rk2Ye2AtsA2JkU-DNjo3CbiKbsj30lG8-OYrOpjNJWmIxvuS3QrNt8nh-okaSnjO72WeKx6T7Bi5LcvBx7FtmlVxJ3pd-dk79SGUBKlAqWdzm1C3oRRda9AgOKAReShkPxuTxQHYOvY43HjgKNlmdrvsuzgig-Q_yDdmpaUlvlweu6xJI1x.IkxFpofw5kPVLcQyw-BIqKPqSPfcK103ZTEKYQZpqs8&dib_tag=se&keywords=end+of+life+planner&qid=1738774643&sprefix=end+of+life+planner%2Caps%2C93&sr=8-6
VOYCE blog about end of life planning:
https://www.voycestl.org/blog/preparing-for-death-as-a-momentous-life-event/

Thursday Jan 09, 2025
We're At The Age We're Making A Podcast
Thursday Jan 09, 2025
Thursday Jan 09, 2025
In this introduction to the podcast "We're At The Age," Marjorie and Melody discuss the challenges of caregiving for aging parents and relatives, emphasizing the need for community support and resources. We chat about personal experiences with family health issues and the importance of planning for the future, including discussions around end-of-life planning.